Before You Became Mommy

Many of you were married before having children, and yes, you adored being married (and still do!). The spontaneous adventures, spending time together, doing what you want after work, and the love you shared. Then came the kiddos. The sweet snuggles, sleepless nights, joy of life, and of course, a messy home. 

“Ladies, before you were Mommy, you were his. Men, before you were Daddy, you were hers.” This article about remembering your spouse just tugged at our heartstrings and we wanted to share. 

Even with the great gift of children, you need to remember one another, the two that made your beautiful family. There is no greater adventure to experience with your best friend than parenthood, but may you forever remember the love you shared in your first days, months, years of marriage. 

Sex Changes Things, Changes You - STIs

We can all agree that sex changes things. Parents, teachers and professionals spend a lot of time warning teens about pregnancy, a physical consequence of sex. However, one of the least discussed consequences of sex is sexually transmitted infections or diseases (STIs or STDs), among other emotional, social, mental and spiritual effects.

Many sexually active people don’t think they could be at risk for an STI, reasoning that their partner "looks clean" or they haven’t had that many sexual partners. However, the facts tell us otherwise. Take a look at some of the recent numbers published by the Centers for Disease Control (CDC).

•  1 in 2 sexually active people will contract an STI by age 25
• 19 million new STIs occur in the U.S. each year; 50% of these are among people under age 25
• Less than half of adults ages 18 to 44 have ever been tested for an STI, other than Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV)

Most STIs are curable, and all STIs are treatable. However, some STIs if left untreated can have lifelong effects such as infertility or organ damage. What is even more alarming is that many STIs do not present symptoms and therefore go undiagnosed.

The CDC notes that America’s young people bear much of the burden of these infections, including physical suffering, emotional pain, mental anguish, social embarrassment and spiritual shame.  Having sex is not a quick, simple decision; it could impact young people for the rest of their lives.

Addressing this social issue with awareness is only the first step in combatting this epidemic. Eliminating the risk is a vital, second step. We need to encourage the delay of sexual activity until a person enters into a long-term, mutually monogamous relationship with an uninfected partner, such as marriage. Need a plan? Keep sex within the boundaries of marriage. Even the U.S. government agrees as stated on the CDC’s website: “The most reliable way to avoid infection is to not have sex.”

If you are sexually active, get tested. LifeCare Testing Clinic, located in Columbus, provides testing and treatment of STIs. Their mission is to compassionately engage and educate our community with the truth regarding sexual integrity. Call LifeCare Testing Clinic at 812-418-3230 or visit lifecaretestingclinic.com to schedule your appointment.

Everyone has a bright future ahead of you. Don’t let an STI ruin that.

#STDAwareness

The Source of Truth

by Cynthia Workman, Abstinence Education Administrative Assistant

While processing surveys recently gathered during one of our Abstinence Education Classes presented to 6^th graders, I was looking over students responses to the question, “List a person you can ALWAYS trust to give you the truth about sexual activity.”  A typical response to this question is a parent, sibling, trusted best friend or extended family member.  I was surprised to see an 11 year old young lady had responded to this query with the answer, “the internet”.

The internet has become a source of fast answers with a quick hit of the enter tab.  We can get trivia answered, dates recalled and the latest news and happenings from around the entire planet in less than a second.  It is not surprising that a young person would view the internet as a quick and ready resource to her questions.  What is sad is that she may view a response from a quick topical search related to sexual activity as “truth”.  I shudder to think what may even pop onto her screen in response to any query related to topics on sexuality.  It would be like jumping into a shark tank and hoping to find a friendly dolphin to swim with.  Chances are slim she will discover truth and that her purity of mind will come out unscathed.

What is truth and where can we find it?  God is truth.  There is no duplicity, no changing with the seasons or the times, no falsehood…only truth, unchanging, foundational truth.  He cannot lie.  He is truth in His person.  Jesus said, “I am the way, the truth and the life.” John 14:6.   Therefore, His Word is true. “Sanctify them by the truth, your word is truth.” John 17:17.  It can be relied upon for factual, consistent truth that is unswayed by the current cultures pleasure-oriented, consumer-oriented, self-centered society. As followers of Almighty God, we should be relied upon to speak truth for Him.  So those of you with a young person in your life, a child, grandchild, sibling, neighbor, etc. speak the timeless, unchanging truth to those you have the opportunity to have in your life.  “Speak the truth in love.” Ephesians 4:15.  God’s truth is not changed by current social norms.

My hope would be that any young person with questions related to sexual purity and sexual activity would be able to find an honest, truthful, factual response from a trusted adult rather than an impersonal search engine on the world-wide web.  Believing parent and grandparent wade in unafraid to these topics, seeking truth and answers from the source of truth and relevant guidelines-our Unchanging God and His timeless Word! If you’d like help in parenting and answers to difficult questions young people may have, please call our office (866-510-5067) to see about when and where one of our My Best For You or Transformed presentations for parents and students is taking place near you. There is also the option to schedule one in your local church. 

"More dad-moments, please"

Author Lori Borgman recently posted an article on her website that we must give props to. In the article, Borgman connects a pop culture event to something we should all be a bit more protective of: parenthood. 

Being a parent is not easy, we can easily agree on that. Yet sometimes it is easier to be a friend to your child rather than being a parent. 

"We're an odd lot," Borgman says. "We strive to give kids the best schools, the best experiences, brag that they're talented and ahead of the curve, yet shrink from asking basic questions that reveal whether they can follow simple logic."

To be the best they can be, our children need to grow -- physically, mentally, spiritually, socially and emotionally. If we do not seek to challenge our children, to protect them, yet teach them, then what favors are we doing? Read Borgman's entire article here and share your thoughts. 

It's 2014! (We're a bit late, we know!)

Hello there,
Our sincerest apologies for neglecting our blog and our readers for the past few months!

We have just wrapped up our 2014 Fundraising Banquets. Six banquets, five weeks, four different locations; what a delightful whirlwind! Because of our faithful supporters, volunteers and staff we can once again say that the banquets were a success. If you were one of the many people that helped us in some way, thank you for all that you do and have done!

One banquet guest noted that "PCC is a beacon of truth in our culture of confusion…," and that is what we exactly what we strive to be. We are so blessed to be doing the work we do and we are honored to serve our communities with the truth.

If you happened to miss our banquets this year, but would still like to hear the keynote speaker, Dr. Gary Johnson, we do have dvd copies available at no cost to you. Please just give us a call at 1-866-510-5067.

Here is a quick snapshot of other events coming up this year:
April 6th - Shelby County Center Open House
April 15th - PCC Impact: The stories behind the numbers
July 28th - 16th Annual Golf Challenge
September 20th - Walk For Life in Columbus
October 4th - Walk For Life in Greensburg